Hayley Ruth Photography

Monday, 15 November 2010

Taking the plunge!

Quite relevant to write this post today as I've noticed a couple of tweets about fellow wedding professionals wanting to give up their day job. 

It never feels like the right time to give up full time employment and start your own business.  I had made an attempt five years previously but was soon working for a venue that demanded too much of my time to be classed as ‘self employed’.  I reluctantly became an employee, but the upside was I really enjoyed the job and having worked in corporate entertainment, this was the start of my ‘wedding’ career. 

The best thing about the job was I discovered Thaxted where we now live.  I was on the hunt for B&B’s to recommend to clients and I had arranged to visit ‘Crossways’ http://www.crosswaysthaxted.co.uk/.  After looking at the rooms, the owners Michael and Beppe offered me a drink and whilst we chatted over coffee, I thought ‘I want to live here’.  I was soon trawling the internet looking for properties, much to my husbands horror as we had just spent the last eight years renovating our previous home.  I quickly found the perfect house and much to everyone’s surprise, we moved in 12 weeks later! 




I then went on to work in Saffron Walden organising weddings, christenings, funerals, birthday celebrations, Christmas parties – even working for Jamie Oliver at his home in Clavering and on the set of his TV shows.  It was when I was asked by Michaela Doherty to organise her wedding to Jimmy on their farm in Suffolk, that my dreams really had come true.  Unbeknown to Michaela (and my husband) I had an article on Jimmy pinned to my wall at work four years previously!  So organising their wedding to me was like organising Robbie Williams and Ayda Fields!

With Jimmy & Michaela

After their wedding I soon realised I should go it alone, as I really enjoyed working so closely with them to organise every detail.  Working for a venue is great fun, but you don’t get to offer creative advice to the couples and to work with them on colour schemes and styling ideas, something I am most interested in.

It was a big step to take as we were used to the security employment brings, but I had spent such a long time putting my energies into other people’s businesses, I thought now was the perfect time to put them into my own. 

It is the best decision I have ever made and whilst every month varies financially, there is nothing more rewarding than working for yourself.